Someone posted a question about exercise, and how you feel during it and after it. I've never really enjoyed it; the only reason I do it at all is because I think I need to. But there's not much enjoyment to be had from the activity itself. When I go for a walk I enjoy talking with hub; when I go swimming at the lake I enjoy cooling off and being in nature. But I could be enjoying these things minus the exercise component. I hear about the runner's high and how great that is, but I haven't experienced that. Either I'm just not wired that way, or I'm doing it wrong. It's probably the latter; it's tough to get past the apparent counter-intuitive notion that if you do something you don't like more, it will feel better.
Anyway, here's one of the other responses to the question:
This is so foreign to me, I'd say she has to be lying but I am trying to wrap my head around this and accept it as an actual possible variation that works for her. It sure seems weird though.
Anyway, here's one of the other responses to the question:
For me, there's nothing like the feeling of pushing yourself to your physical limit...and beyond. I love when that second adrenaline rush kicks in riiiight before you think you're going to collapse, and then suddenly whatever you're doing gets easy again. It's that "runner's high." I love it when I realize that I'm cruising through my workout today and need to kick it up another notch. I love it when I push through the pain and reach my goal. I love the energy and I *need* loud, aggressive music to get me through. (One reason I'm PISSED about the Bally's/Crunch situation.) I love "competing" with the person next to me. If they were on the treadmill before I was, I'm NOT getting off before they do. Even outdoors, I love standing at the bottom of a gorge looking at the top of a hill, then standing at the top looking down a couple of hours later and thinking "wow, that was a hell of a hike!"
And afterward? I have soooooo much more energy than I did before. I think the post-rush for me is more intense than what I feel during exercise. I feel good physically AND mentally. When I get in a funk, I can always look at how much I've been working out (or not) and there's definitely a correlation. When I don't work out, I'm less productive, more depressed, and less energetic and creative. It's KEY to a good life for me.
But my *problem* is that I enjoy it too much. It feels like a luxury and I feel guilty spending the time on it that I do. I can't just go to the gym for half an hour and be happy, and finding 2-3 hours a day is impossible. I find myself only allowing myself to go when everything else is finished for the day, which is rare. So I don't go as often as I should, then I get in a funk, get less productive, feel guilty because I'm NOT going...you get the idea.
I guess in some ways, I'd be a great trophy wife. All day at the gym with nothing better to do?? HEAVEN!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is so foreign to me, I'd say she has to be lying but I am trying to wrap my head around this and accept it as an actual possible variation that works for her. It sure seems weird though.
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Date: Jan. 16th, 2005 12:55 pm (UTC)From:no subject
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